Modern Mom Probs

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Modern Mom Probs

Show Notes

For this episode, Tara is handing the mic over to Mika Altidor and Julie Lokun, hosts of the awesome show Get Obsessed, which is also on the Bleav Network. This episode is an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the real-life ex-wife of Jordan Belfort, famously portrayed by Margot Robbie in The Wolf of Wall Street. While Hollywood glamorized the excess, Dr. Nadine reveals the hidden truth — the emotional and psychological abuse, manipulation, and trauma that came with life behind the movie.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

- The real story behind The Wolf of Wall Street — beyond fame and fortune.

- The psychology of abuse and how to recognize toxic patterns.

- How Dr. Nadine Macaluso turned her trauma into a powerful message of healing.

- Why Hollywood’s portrayal missed the emotional depth of her reality.

- Actionable advice on healing after trauma, rebuilding confidence, and setting boundaries.

- How to move from victimhood to victory — and reclaim your power.

About Dr. Nadine Macaluso

Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a licensed marriage and family therapist, trauma expert, and author who helps individuals heal from abusive and narcissistic relationships. Once married to infamous stockbroker Jordan Belfort, Nadine’s story inspired Margot Robbie’s character in The Wolf of Wall Street. Today, she uses her platform to raise awareness about emotional abuse, trauma bonding, and post-traumatic growth.

️ Learn more about Nadine’s work here: https://www.drnadinemacaluso.com ️ Follow Nadine on Instagram: @drnadinemacaluso

Get Obsessed Podcast

Instagram: @getobsessedpodcast

Website: www.getobsessedpodcast.com

The Hosts Julie Lokun: www.bigbetterbrand.com | www.bigbetterbrand.co

Mika Altidor: www.victormikabakery.com

Who are the hosts of Get Obsessed? The show is hosted by Julie Lokun, a branding expert and writer, and Mika Altidor, a successful entrepreneur and co-owner of Victor & Mika’s Bakery. Together, they explore the passions, habits, and mindsets of people who are "obsessed" with excellence.

What is the "Get Obsessed" philosophy? We believe that greatness comes from a healthy obsession. We highlight entrepreneurs, authors, and thought leaders who tell it like it is and provide actionable advice to help our "Obsessors" level up their lives.

How can I be a guest on the show? We are always looking for dynamic voices! You can apply directly through our dedicated guest portals at www.getobsessedpod.com or www.getobsessedguest.com.

Where can I find Julie and Mika outside of the podcast? Julie leads brand strategy at Big Better Brand, while Mika continues to innovate in the culinary world via Victor & Mika’s Bakery. You can find their full bios and business links in the show notes above!

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