Find Love With Emily

The REAL Reason It's Harder To Find Love After 30

Find Love With Emily

Show Notes

Does it feel like finding love is hard because you're over 30, over 40?

That there were more decent men to date when you were in your 20s? Dating was easier? You chances of finding love were better then?

And now that you're in your 30s or 40s, it feels like you chance of meeting the right man and finding love are getting slimmer by the second?

And 100%, you've got PLENTY of evidence that says yes, "the older I get the harder it is to find love"...

But what if your age wasn't actually the problem?

This episode uncovers the deeply ingrained belief that finding love gets harder after 30 and how that shapes what you see, how you date, the men you meet and whether or not you find love.

You’ll discover:

The real reason why dating after 30 can genuinely feel so much harder What actually determines your dating experiences and whether or not you find love Why the pressure to “find someone before it’s too late” changes the way you date Why trying harder to date well, only makes love feel harder to find What has to change if you want finding love to get easier (regardless of your age).

If you’re a single woman in your 30s or 40s who’s scared you’ve left it too late, exhausted by dating apps, or wondering where all the good men have gone, this episode is one you need to hear.

Because your age may not be the thing making love harder to find at all!

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