When Your Heart for Others Costs You Your Health: Breaking the Cycle of Burnout and People Pleasing
Listen Then SpeakShow Notes
In this powerful episode, Executive Coach and Counselor Jahmaal Marshall exposes the hidden patterns driving burnout among senior leaders, entrepreneurs, and high performers. Drawing from real client scenarios, he reveals why people-pleasing, emotional overextension, and subconscious programming drain leaders of their time, energy, and clarity often without them realizing it.
Jahmaal also introduces his new Mini-Course, built for leaders who want to reclaim mental bandwidth, break self-sacrificing cycles, and lead from identity instead of exhaustion. And for a limited time, listeners can access a special Black Friday offer.
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