Comeback Coach

99. JUST JESSICA - Psychology of crying at work – how to limit damage to your career + what managers should do when a team member cries

Comeback Coach

Show Notes

Ask me a Q Hello Brights Minds, I’ve been thinking a lot about displays of emotions at work because of the increasing number of women I’ve been coaching over the last 12 months who’ve described being taken by surprise by their tears and worrying about the implications. It tuns out there’s some pretty complex psychology at play when it comes to how crying at work can potentially affect our reputation. I’m Jessica Chivers, a psychologist and executive coach. For the last 20 years I’ve been coac...

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