Show Notes
Join our next retreat 🧘♀️ → https://www.thepilatesretreatclub.com.au/shop You sent us your friendship breakup stories, and some of them left us speechless. In this episode of Changing Lanes, we read the stories you sent in after last week's friendship breakups episode. A best friend who had an affair with a husband and is now the children's stepmum. A mum friendship that ended with an ultimatum at a train station and then silence. A friendship from school that fell apart over a bridesmaid fitting. We couldn't fit every story into the episode, so the rest are on our Substack → https://changinglanesthepodcast.substack.com/p/the-friendship-breakups-we-never In this episode, we cover: Losing a best friend to an affair, and what happens when she becomes your children's stepmum
Why being ghosted is the hardest kind of friendship breakup
How to get over a friendship breakup when you never get a reason
Mum friendship breakups, and the kids who grieve their friends too
A bridesmaid fallout that ended a friendship from school
What happens when a friend apologises years later
Why a repaired friendship is rarely quite the same
One-sided friendships and a friend who became dependent
How different life stages pull friends apart
Noticing your other friendships get stronger after you lose the wrong one
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