Show Notes
Motherhood is deeply spiritual work, yet many mothers feel inadequate, as if their contribution doesn’t count by the world’s standards of success, or as if motherhood falls outside the spiritual work Judaism so often celebrates.
Today, with guest Miri Lipskier, we explore Jewish and Chassidic teachings on motherhood, including the biblical prophetess Chana’s choice to remain home with her son and the Lubavitcher Rebbe’s teachings on the dignity and sanctity of the private act of motherhood. We explore what the Kohanim's physical service in the Temple can teach us about domestic work, how spiritual meaning can get lost in the daily demands of caring for children, and how mothers can make room for prayer, learning, and support without guilt.
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Miri Lipskier is a wife, mother and shlucha in Chabad Youth of Melbourne, Australia, overseeing educational and community programs for children, teens, and young women. She directs Bnos Chabad, CGI day camps and high school overnight camps, and YLIV, a volunteer organisation of 200 people. With over 20 years of teaching experience, Miri is passionate about mentorship, meaningful relationships, and empowering every individual to grow into the best version of themselves. Contact: [email protected]
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* * * * * * * TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 “I’m a Mother”: The Feeling of Inadequacy 00:33 A Jewish Perspective on Motherhood 02:33 Meet Miri Lipskier 04:18 Motherhood and Communal Work 06:38 The Lubavitcher Rebbe on Womanhood and Motherhood 08:38 The Spiritual Value of Raising Children 12:18 Chana’s Choice to Stay Home 15:00 Why Chana’s Story Matters Even If You Aren't a Stay at Home Mother 17:20 Motherhood and Society’s Measures of Success 21:08 Can Any Choice Protect Us from Regret? 22:22 The Physical Demands of Motherhood 24:00 A Morning in the Life of a Mother 26:00 Finding G-dliness in the Physical 28:28 The Kohanim and the Holiness of Domestic Work 31:09 When Caregiving Feels Spiritually Disconnecting 33:25 Making Room for Prayer and Learning 36:18 Spiritual Nourishment Without Guilt 38:00 Finding Inspiration Through Motherhood 41:20 Asking for Practical Support 42:03 Building a Joyful Jewish Home Together 43:37 Celebrating Jewish Holidays With Creativity 45:40 Using Music to Shape the Home 46:10 Household Help as an Investment in the Family Unit 47:00 Creating a Personal Home for Hashem 48:51 “I Already Sent Someone”: Recognizing Your Own Strength 50:54 Closing Reflections
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