Ep 67 - From Compulsion to Choice - An Intro to the Enneagram with renowned psychotherapist Jutka Freiman
Comfort & Growth with Crystal Lim-LangeShow Notes
In Part 1 of our conversation with Jutka Freiman (Ep 66) , we explored yin and yang energy, soul maintenance, and what it means to slow down without panic. In Part 2, we go deeper—into the Enneagram, one of the most powerful tools for self-understanding you'll ever encounter. Crystal and renowned therapist Jutka Freiman break down the Enneagram not as a personality quiz, but as a map of your unconscious patterns—the strategies you developed early in life to feel safe, loved, or in control. An...
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