Summary
A new flirting technique known as "push-pull" gains attention for its effectiveness in creating engaging interactions. This method combines compliments with humor to alleviate tension and foster a more relaxed atmosphere during conversations. By alternating between affirming remarks and light-hearted jokes, individuals can maintain interest while avoiding the pitfalls of overly serious or needy exchanges.
Examples from public figures like Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson illustrate the technique's application. Brand's approach showcases how a compliment can be followed by a self-deprecating joke, which helps diffuse any awkwardness. Ferguson, on the other hand, employs softer pushes, using humor to balance his compliments while keeping the conversation light and engaging.
The discussion emphasizes the importance of maintaining a dynamic flow in conversations, particularly when approaching someone new. Rather than simply waiting for a response after a compliment, individuals are encouraged to steer the dialogue in different directions, enhancing the overall interaction and making it more enjoyable for both parties.
Show Notes
Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjERussell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out.So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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