Show Notes
In this episode of The Aging Parent Playbook, Dr. Barbara Sparacino tackles one of the hardest conversations adult children face—talking to a parent about assisted living. She shares how to recognize when it's time, how to approach the topic without triggering resistance, and what to do if your parent refuses. With empathy, timing, and the right language, this episode guides you through a compassionate and practical approach to help your parent maintain dignity and control during a difficult transition.
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