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Why are Orthodox Jewish weddings so expensive? 💸
In some circles, it’s normal to spend over $120,000 on a single wedding. My friend Mayer Gold joins us to break down why this happens – and whether we can actually change it.
You can contact Mayer here: [email protected]
Mayer's awesome Brooklyn-based Kosher supermarket is named Certo Market; check it out here: https://CertoMarket.com
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 Intro 01:43 Who is Mayer Gold? 02:14 Making a $23,000 Wedding 05:32 Making 5 Different Weddings 08:25 It Takes 2 Sides to Make a Wedding 11:25 Discussing Finances Before Engagement 13:18 Making Bar Mitzvahs Nowadays 15:40 Sushi 16:36 Kesem Media – Where Marketing Results Feel Like Magic! 18:07 BitBean – BitBean Has Big AI News 19:34 Small vs. Big Weddings 22:54 Involving Your Children in Financial Decisions 25:18 Making Engagement Parties 27:49 The Different Costs for Different Circles in Orthodox World 31:44 Use Your Wealth Correctly 34:12 Who Are You Really Making the Wedding For? 37:04 The Benefits of Takana Weddings 38:04 $10,000 for Flowers?? 40:22 The Costs of Makeup 43:00 Wedding Invitations 44:30 Are People Really Going Into Debt from Making a Wedding? 45:32 Twillory – Awesome Men’s Clothing 47:06 Colel Chabad – Helping Holocaust Survivors 48:23 The Over-the-Top Gift Giving 49:54 Gift Giving 53:18 Practical Ideas to Help Save Money 1:01:45 We Need to Start Teaching the Younger Generation 1:02:28 More Helpful Money Tips 1:07:33 Outro
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