Dropping In With Charlie Houpert

“Women keep meeting the same 5%” - Matthew Hussey on What Men Get Wrong In Dating

Dropping In With Charlie Houpert

Show Notes

Matthew Hussey is a relationship and confidence coach. Today we chat about what a decade of coaching almost exclusively women has taught him about modern dating, the key components of attraction and his upcoming book Love Life.

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⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Intro 00:40 Universal Content 02:32 The Bliss Point 06:56 Unhappy and Hurt 11:13 Dating the Same 5% 15:04 Initiating Conversations 17:54 Expectation Pressures 21:26 Take Away the Hidden Agenda 26:04 Flirt with the World 28:18 Internal Workaround for Introverts 33:21 The Two-Hit Theory 37:45 Certainty is a Valuable Trait 43:43 Trust Issues and Setting Boundaries 50:55 Success Coming From Insecurities 54:48 Why Should You Love Yourself? 01:01:44 Parental Love and Responsibilities 01:06:16 Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards 01:12:22 What is Hurting You? 01:16:47 The Greatest Life Lesson 01:18:13 Why We Choose Pain

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