Ep012 Saurora Grace: Sexologist, Dominatrix, Escort and Adult Content Creator
Gurl Talk with Jenny RavenShow Notes
In this flirty, playful episode of "Girl Talk with Jenny Raven," Jenny cozies up with the fabulous Saurora, a tantric healer, erotic empowerment sexologist, and pro domme with a heart for queer and disabled-inclusive intimacy.
Together, they giggle and get real about sexual awakening, overcoming shame, and the delicious freedom of living authentically. From lingerie confessions to kinky rope secrets, Saurora spills all, while Jenny shares her own journey of self-expression and cross-dressing.
It’s a juicy, feminine celebration of pleasure, healing, and embracing your wild, wonderful self, no matter what anyone thinks.
Introduction & Rapid Fire Questions (00:00:00) Saurora and Jenny introduce the episode, followed by a series of playful, rapid-fire questions about preferences and kinks. Saurora’s Self-Description & Philosophy (00:02:48) Saurora describes her personality, approach to life, and her work in sexology, empowerment, and challenging sexual shame. Jenny Reads Saurora’s Bio & Sets Episode Themes (00:04:48) Jenny reads Saurora’s website bio, highlighting her activism, inclusivity, and the main topics: erotic empowerment, sex work, and intimacy. Personal Journeys into Sexuality (00:06:04) Both discuss their early experiences with sexual feelings, repression, and the journey toward embracing their sexual identities. Saurora’s Sexual Awakening & Family Dynamics (00:08:02) Saurora shares her early sexual curiosity, family background, and the impact of her mother’s attitudes on her development. Exploring Kinks, OnlyFans, and Shame (00:10:44) Saurora recounts discovering kinks, starting OnlyFans, and navigating secrecy, shame, and community in fetish spaces. Mother’s Death as a Turning Point (00:11:44) Saurora explains how her mother’s passing catalyzed her decision to fully embrace her work and identity. Retraining & Embracing Sex Work (00:12:41) Saurora details retraining as a tantric sexologist, her motivations, and the integration of sex work and healing. Disability-Inclusive Intimacy (00:14:38) Saurora describes working with disabled clients, breaking taboos, and her passion for accessible, inclusive sexuality. Building a Life of Sexual Freedom (00:16:32) Saurora discusses building a dungeon, living authentically, and the healing power of sexual self-acceptance. Jenny’s Reflections on Repression & Cross-Dressing (00:17:23) Jenny shares her own experiences with repression, cross-dressing, and the challenges of generational shame. The Hidden Lives of Cross-Dressers (00:21:26) Jenny discusses survey findings about cross-dressers, secrecy, and the emotional toll of unexpressed identity. Saurora on Supporting Clients’ Self-Expression (00:24:22) Saurora explains how she supports clients in expressing their desires, especially men wanting to dress up. Navigating Partner Disclosure & Shame (00:27:33) Jenny and Saurora discuss the difficulties and potential rewards of coming out to partners about kinks and cross-dressing. Religion, Community, and Risk of Rejection (00:28:33) They explore the impact of religion and community on sexual expression, and the risks and rewards of living authentically. Choosing Authenticity Over Fear (00:30:04) Saurora and Jenny discuss the cost of hiding versus the freedom of living openly, and finding new, supportive communities. Jenny’s Personal Journey with Partner Acceptance (00:34:19) Jenny shares her experience of coming out to her partner, therapy, and the surprising outcomes of honesty. Advice for Introducing Kinks to Partners (00:37:15) Jenny offers practical advice for introducing cross-dressing or kinks to partners, starting small and private. The Power of Being Seen and Heard (00:40:06) Saurora explains the importance of being seen and heard in relationships, and how this can reduce obsessive urges. Experimenting with Gender Expression (00:42:32) Saurora suggests trying gender expression “like a jacket,” encouraging gradual exploration and comfort. Sensual Comfort of Clothing (00:43:26) D
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