S1E19: Journey work - understanding Dad - & me as father Part 2
Finding peace within parental alienationShow Notes
As I began to understand my relationship dynamic with my father (Part 1 of this video), I was clearly shown how that dynamic played a role in my relationship with my daughters.
How my tactics for finding validation and love, led to the intense emotions that I express, that not only made my dad afraid of me, but it turns out, also lent to my daughters feeling afraid of me.
Oh, what a difficult, but important realization.
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