Show Notes
Welcome to Episode 85 of our Mediumship Podcast! In this episode, Tabs explores one of the most common questions people have after losing someone: how long does it take for our loved ones to visit us after they pass? She shares her perspective from mediumship and personal experience, explaining why there is no set timeline for when Spirit makes contact. Some loved ones come through quickly, while others may take more time—and there are many reasons for that, including the soul’s transition, healing, and the readiness of both sides. Tabs also talks about the different ways loved ones may visit—through dreams, signs, subtle feelings, or moments of deep knowing—and how grief can sometimes make it harder to recognize these connections. With a grounded and compassionate approach, she helps you understand what may be happening behind the scenes and how to stay open without forcing the experience. If you’ve been wondering when or how your loved one might reach out, this episode offers reassurance, clarity, and a reminder that connection doesn’t end—it simply changes form. Tune in for insight, comfort, and a deeper understanding of how Spirit reconnects after passing.
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