Show Notes
Out of everything we hear about parenting styles what about being a parent who is confident in their own way, who stands in their truth and who let their inner wisdom and inner guidance be the best possible compass for parenting their very own child?
I find this very empowering because it teaches us to trust ourselves and to see in us more than we are and I’m excited because that’s what this episode is about.
In today’s episode I speak to Keely Pierce, a Relationship Coach and Parenting Expert, stepmom and a mum of 2. She helps families strengthen their communication, build trust, and foster a deep sense of connection so they can achieve true happiness and harmony in their households.
This conversation was rich, insightful, and empowering!! Hope it will inspire confidence in you as a mother and help you embrace your inner wisdom and trust your unique way as a parent.
Topics covered in this episode:
Keeley’s matrescence story
Being a mum and a stepmom
Confident Mum -what it means?
What shapes our parenting style
Challenging biggest parenting myths around asking for help, showing your “weakness”, parents needs being less important than children’s needs, and the perfect parent myth
Seeking validation of our parenting style from our parents
Simple yet powerful self-coaching tool to boost your parenting awareness.
Empowered parenting
Defining your unique Sweet Spot in Parenting
3 Steps to build confidence as a Mum.
In the first part of this episode Keely shares her matrescence story including her identity shift, body image and our perception of own attractiveness, breastfeeding challenges, decreased confidence and self-esteem, being a step mum and the family dynamic.
In the second part we talk all things empowered parenting and building confidence as a mum.
Enjoy!
About Keely:
Keely is a Relationship Coach and Parenting Expert. She helps families strengthen their communication, build trust, and foster a deep sense of connection so they can achieve true happiness and harmony in their households.
Her aim is to create the ultimate dream team where every member can thrive. As a mother herself, she believes that a happy and harmonious household is the foundation for a fulfilling life, and she is committed to making this dream a reality for as many families as possible.
Keely’s approach is relatable and with a sense of humour to make you feel understood, supported, and inspired to take on whatever life throws your way.
She’s been nominated for the 'Business Mum of the Year Small Business Award' and has a proven track record of helping many women navigate the ups and downs of motherhood while achieving their career goals. Her personalised Relationship Mapping Sessions can help mums kickstart their journey towards a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling life.
To learn more about Keely’s work visit the links below:
Keely | Relationship Coach and Parenting Expert (@i_am_more_coach) | Instagram
Home - I am More (iam-more.co.uk)
Keely Pierce | LinkedIn
I_am_More_Coach (@I_am_more_acad) / Twitter
Keely Pierce - YouTube
About your Host: Gosia Scarrott is a Business and Confidence Coach and a new mum to Olivia. She is passionate about empowering women to see and believe their worth so they can bring their unique fire to the world and Shine!
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