How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome and Why You Might Not Want To
You're the Boss, Now What? | Team Emotional Intelligence for Managers and LeadersShow Notes
Have you ever wondered if feeling like a fraud might actually be a sign you're doing something right? In this episode of You're the Boss, Now What?, host Desiree Petrich takes on one of the most common experiences in leadership, imposter syndrome, and reframes it completely. Imposter syndrome was first identified in 1978, and nearly 50 years later, it still shows up in every industry, every experience level, and every area of life. Whether you're a new manager questioning if your team r...
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