Show Notes
In this episode, Kaila and Kyle are joined by Aiko Bethea, Founder of Rare Coaching, to talk about the hidden bullsh*t at work, how it’s holding you back, and what you can do about it. From holding yourself, your colleagues, and even bosses accountable, to freeing yourself of a scarcity mindset, this conversation is packed with practical advice for anyone feeling stuck in their career.
And don’t forget to pick up Aiko’s new book, Anchored, Aligned, Accountable: A Framework for Transcending Bullsh*t and Transforming Our Lives and Work.
00:00 Intro
02:04 What Aiko is referring to when she talks about bullsh*t
04:57 The Bullsh*t Asymmetry Principle
06:13 Using the anchored, aligned, accountable framework
11:37 How to figure out your values
17:42 Finding the motivation to get clear on your values
21:22 How to hold colleagues, peers, and higher-ups accountable
25:13 The important role of curiosity
28:00 How do you counteract a scarcity mindset?
33:07 How do you know when your identity is too tied up in your work?
38:45 The best first step towards getting anchored, aligned, and accountable
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