Show Notes
Delanie Fischer continues the “Subscriber Stories” series with subscriber Milo Jones, who shares her 10+ year experience managing the body-focused repetitive behavior, trichotillomania (hair pulling). They discuss how it began, misconceptions surrounding it, and the tools, coping strategies, and habit swaps that have supported her. BFRBs affect 1 in 20 people and include core disorders such as hair pulling and skin picking (excoriation disorder), as well as related compulsive body-focused behaviors such as nail biting (onychophagia), cheek chewing, teeth grinding, knuckle cracking, finger or foot tapping, nose picking, and mucus fishing syndrome, among others. Whether you personally experience BFRBs or love someone who does, this conversation is relatable, validating, and full of practical insights.
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Episode Highlights:
What to Do When There’s No Clear Treatment Plan
CBT, SSRIs, Mindfulness, and Habit Reversal Training (HRT)
Anxiety or Sensation: Which Comes First?
How “Worst Case” Thinking Can Relieve Pressure
15 Tools, Tips & Swaps for Managing Symptoms
When Others Start to Notice Your Behavior & Side Effects
How Menstrual (and Energy) Cycles Can Affect Symptoms
Watching TV, Sitting in Traffic, Overwhelm, and Other Triggers
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