Show Notes
Today, we're highlighting one of our favorite episodes ever! Featuring the OG gang, we address that sex is for wives too and how to embrace it! Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let's talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass on Sexual Desire Differences today! From the Bible Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you— if you find my beloved, what will you tell him? Tell him I am faint with love. Song of Songs 5:18 Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:11-13
"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31-32 Resources You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too – CalmHealthySexy Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husbands? – The Forgiven Wife What a Quickie Taught Us About Sexual Intimacy – The Forgiven Wife Why "10 Minutes and Lube" Is Horrible Advice – The Forgiven Wife How Not to Think About Sex – The Forgiven Wife Learn What You Like in Bed – The Forgiven Wife Learn to Embrace Your Sexuality – The Forgiven Wife Nurture Your Sexual Desire – Honeycomb & Spice Wives, Your Voice Matters (in the Bedroom & Beyond) – Hot, Holy & Humorous High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots – Hot, Holy & Humorous Where Purity Culture Got It Wrong, Let's Get It Right – Hot, Holy & Humorous Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs – Wikipedia Sexual Desire and Arousal: The Nonlinear Model (Rosemary Basson) – ObG Project These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm – Hot, Holy & Humorous (orgasm gap) Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns (affiliate link) Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Strong Wives Coaching Support with Bonny Burns Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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Our trio takes on the most common questions we receive from listeners, including whether you should do what he wants in bed, what happens to sexual desire after betrayal, and how to get your spouse to do what you need/want. Sponsor Check out our webinars and masterclass at Webinars - For Christian Wives! We've covered Understanding Your Sex Drive, Foreplay, Understanding Her Sex Drive (for husbands!), Getting in the Mood, Oral Sex, Orgasm, and Sexual Desire Differences. Each installment ranges from $10 to $25, and discounts are available for bundles. Don't miss these value-priced resources for your marital intimacy! From the Bible
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