Hormones, Desire & Midlife Sex w/ Dr. Gillian Goddard | Szn. 3 Ep. 18

What is your therapist actually thinking during that first session? In this behind-the-scenes episode, Dr. Jenn takes you onto the couch and into the therapist’s chair to reveal what’s happening beneath the surface when a new couple walks into her office. From where partners choose to sit to how they tell their story, every interaction offers clues about their relationship, communication style, and readiness for change. Dr. Jenn shares the subtle observations, split-second decisions, and clinical instincts that guide the first session—including how therapists assess trust, safety, emotional regulation, relationship dynamics, and the delicate balance between support and accountability. You’ll learn: What therapists notice before a couple says a word Why body language can be as important as the story itself How therapists adapt their style to different clients What makes building rapport happen so quickly—or not Why couples often wait years before seeking help The challenge of staying connected to both partners equally How therapists balance empathy, accountability, humor, and hope If you've ever wondered what goes on behind the scenes of couples therapy, this episode offers an honest look at the art, psychology, and human connection that shape the therapeutic process.

What happens to intimacy after prostate cancer treatment—and why are so many men and couples unprepared for the changes? Dr. Jenn Kennedy sits down with Victoria Cullen, founder of A Touchy Subject and creator of The Hub, to talk candidly about sexual recovery after prostate cancer. They explore erectile changes, orgasm, penile rehabilitation, grief, masculinity, performance anxiety, and the emotional impact of suddenly feeling like you're living in a different body. But this conversation isn't only about what can be lost. It's also about what can be rediscovered. Victoria shares why sexual recovery requires more than simply waiting for erections to return, how partners can approach recovery as a team, and why expanding the definition of sex can lead some couples to experience more pleasure and connection than they had before treatment. They also unpack common myths—including the idea that sex is over after prostate cancer or that erections that don't return quickly never will—and discuss practical ways to support recovery before and after treatment. Whether you're navigating prostate cancer yourself, supporting a partner, or simply want to better understand sexual health after cancer, this episode offers information, hope, and a powerful reminder: your body is still capable of pleasure.

This conversation with Jennifer Love explores a provocative question: What if feeling turned on wasn’t separate from success--but an important part of it? Dr. Jenn and Jennifer dive into the intersection of erotic energy, power, and wealth, and how embodiment can radically shift the way women lead, earn, and take up space. Jennifer speaks candidly about her self-pleasure practice and how intentional connection with her body became a source of confidence, clarity, and authority in both her business and personal life. Together, they unpack why pleasure still feels taboo in conversations about ambition, what happens when women stop divorcing desire from drive, and how reclaiming aliveness can expand capacity for visibility, impact, and income. Bold, thoughtful, and unapologetically edgy, this episode is for women ready to challenge inherited narratives about success and step into a more embodied, powerful way of leading.

This conversation with sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman goes deeper into one of the most misunderstood tools in couples’ sexuality: the Yes / No / Maybe list. Dr. Jenn and Jessa unpack how this exercise can expand desire without pressure, clarify boundaries, and help partners talk about fantasy versus lived experience, without shame or performance. You’ll learn why wanting to imagine something is different from wanting to do it, how to stay regulated during vulnerable conversations, and how curiosity builds erotic confidence over time. Perfect for couples navigating desire discrepancies, rebuilding erotic trust, or wanting a safer way to explore what turns them on, and what doesn’t.

Dating in midlife can feel like a completely different world—especially if the last time you were single, dating apps didn’t even exist. Dr. Jenn Kennedy sits down with Alyssa Dineen, founder of Style My Profile, to talk about how to navigate modern dating with more confidence, authenticity, and a lot less burnout. They unpack the dating profile mistakes that may be working against you, why old or overly curated photos can sabotage connection, and why chemistry doesn’t always happen on the first date. Alyssa also challenges some of the assumptions women over 50 hear about dating, including the idea that men their age are only interested in younger women. They also explore dating after divorce, how to stop seeking validation from potential partners, when to take a break from the apps, and why the better question after a date may not be “Did they like me?” but “How did I feel with them?” In this episode: • The biggest dating app mistakes people make in midlife • What makes a strong—and authentic—dating profile • Why messaging chemistry can create a false sense of connection • Why attraction may take several dates to develop • Dating from self-worth instead of seeking validation • What actually makes someone attractive in midlife • How to recognize dating app burnout • When vulnerability becomes oversharing • Why consistency and open-mindedness matter when dating online If dating has started to feel more like a second job than a path toward connection, this conversation offers a more grounded way to approach it.