Show Notes
Join me on this episode of The Next Bit Podcast, titled "From Carer Back To Partner," where we explore the challenging transition from caregiver to spouse. In our previous discussion, we examined the tough decision to move a loved one into care. Now, we delve into the emotional aftermath of that decision. How do you redefine your identity when your role changes from caregiver to partner? I’m joined by Dr. Cheryl Johnson, a lead geriatrician, who shares insights on navigating this complex emotional landscape. Together, we address the feelings of guilt, loss, and how to reclaim your relationship beyond caregiving duties. Learn practical strategies for fostering connection and emotional presence, ensuring that your bond remains strong in this new chapter of life. Tune in to find support and guidance as you navigate this profound transition.
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