Charlotte: From Forceps in Theatre to a Birth Centre Water Birth | Two Births, Back to Back Baby, Ventouse, Episiotomy, Blood Loss, Hypnobirthing, Tongue Tie
British Birthing StoriesShow Notes
Charlotte’s first baby was born in theatre with forceps after 40 hours of labour. Two years later her daughter arrived in the birth centre pool after 15 minutes of pushing. Charlotte is a 31 year old mum of two. Both her children were surprise pregnancies, two years and two months apart. She felt sick the whole way through both pregnancies, did a hypnobirthing course, and planned a water birth in the birth centre each time.
With her son, labour started on a walk with her mum two days before her due date. She was sent home at 1 to 2cm, laboured through another night with no sleep, and was 5cm when she went back in. She pushed for two hours with a back to back baby who wasn’t moving, and was taken down to the labour ward, where a doctor told her his heart rate wasn’t good. He was born in theatre after a ventouse attempt and forceps, with an episiotomy she didn’t know about until much later. She lost quite a lot of blood, and the next day a midwife told her his heart rate had been fine the whole way through.
Second time around the hospital weren’t sure about the birth centre because of that blood loss, but she got her water birth. Her contractions started at 1am, she was in the pool soon after 7am, and her daughter was born by 11am weighing 8lb 10oz. Charlotte talks honestly about why, after both births, the rush of euphoria she’d heard so much about never quite came.
In this episode we talk about: What a back to back baby can mean for pushing, and how Charlotte went from the birth centre pool to a ventouse and forceps delivery in theatre Finding out about her episiotomy and blood loss afterwards, and how it shaped plans for her second birth Pregnancy sickness that lasted all the way through two pregnancies, and why she never asked for help with it A sleepy newborn who didn’t feed for 12 hours, tongue tie and a hard start to breastfeeding A fast, positive birth centre water birth, and feeling shock and confusion instead of a rush of love
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