Homosensuality: The Hack for Male Loneliness w/ Drew Hornbein

In this episode of Brotherly Love, Adam and I explore the uncomfortable truth that our fear of embarrassment might be keeping us from the very experiences we crave. Through ridiculous improv games, spontaneous freestyling, and surprisingly vulnerable conversations, we explore what happens when we stop trying to get life right and start taking risks. From confronting strangers to risking rejection and building deeper friendships, we challenge ourselves to abandon the path of least embarrassmen...

In this episode of Brotherly Love, my older brother Jam and I revisit our childhood, laugh about the very different ways we remember growing up, and reflect on the unexpected ways we shaped each other. Jam shares what fatherhood is teaching him about love, sacrifice, and family. We explore my own transition into unclehood, the changing shape of our brotherhood, and the hope that comes with welcoming a new generation. And because it's us, there's plenty of ridiculous storytelling, spontaneou...

In this episode, David and I explore how our experiences of fatherhood shape the way we love, connect, and relate to other men. We reflect on the mentorship we received and wished for, the pressure to earn love through achievement, and the longing for deeper brotherhood. Together, we imagine a different way of living—one where friendship, intimacy, and community aren't occasional experiences, but part of everyday life. How can we simultaneously long for that world while also creating it?

In this episode, I’m joined by my dear friend Michael, a somatic intimacy coach, to explore his journey of coming out, embracing his sexuality, and navigating 12 years of an open marriage. We dive into jealousy, sexual freedom, queer identity, and the courage to live authentically. Michael also shares his experience of repairing his relationship with his father after years of hurt and betrayal. A playful, vulnerable, and sexually candid conversation about love, desire, and living without sh...

This season began with addiction and longing. It ends with self-love. Join me as I celebrate the harvests of 2025 and reflect on the seeds that quietly grew into one of the most meaningful years of my life. — Thanks for walking alongside me.