Episode 125 - My Children Don't Need a Perfect Mother - with Belinda Isbister
Aware Parenting Stories with Joss GouldenShow Notes
Welcome back to another episode and the next instalment in my series on embracing our imperfection in Aware Parenting, in conversation this time with Belinda Isbister. Belinda is an Aware Parenting Instructor from Western Australia with 2 boys aged 5 and 2.
In this episode Belinda shares more of her journey with Aware Parenting and with embracing imperfection in her parenting. She shares some of the ways that she brings herself compassion and we talk about the parallel journey of learning to offer ourselves unconditional love and acceptance, whilst offering that to our children too. She shares some examples of difficult times in her parenting journey and how she has come back to compassion, connection and trust.
To learn more about Belinda please follow her on Instagram at belinda_marie_parenting.
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