Too Into You

‘Relationship red flags and how to spot them’

Too Into You

Show Notes

TW: Episode mentions stalking, sexual abuse, sexual assault, intimate relationship abuse, and violence against women.

In this episode, Mary and Madeline break down the common red flags of abuse in relationships and how to spot them.

We chat about:

How abuse and coercive control are hard to spot

Sex as a tool of manipulation

The power of isolation

How financial abuse keeps your trapped

We also talk about good news in Ireland for victims and survivors of gender based violence, and feature some answers from people we spoke to about healthy relationships.

For information on relationships and abuse, you can visit toointoyou.ie. You can also take the Relationship Quiz at toointoyou.ie to see if yours is healthy or not.

If you're worried about your relationship, or even a friends relationship, you can:

· Call Women’s Aid 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900

· Chat for support at toointoyou.ie

Both are completely free and confidential.

Please follow @toointoyou on TikTok and Instagram to support the Too Into You campaign.

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The Too Into You Podcast is hosted by Mary Hayes, Too Into You Project Coordinator, and Madeline Campbell, Too Into You Project Officer.

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