I Found Out I Was Racist at 40… And It Shocked Me! (Real Talk)

What if the hardest conversations are the ones we need the most?

In this powerful and honest episode, we open up about racism, bias, and personal experiences that have shaped the way we see the world. This isn’t a scripted, perfect discussion. It’s real, raw, and sometimes uncomfortable—but that’s exactly why it matters.

We talk about how upbringing, immigration, and societal views influence our beliefs, often without us even realising. We dive into the truth about racial jokes, why they can be more harmful than they seem, and why self-reflection is the first step towards real change.

One thing we kept coming back to: “It takes courage to admit your biases.”

And it really does.

This episode is not about blame. It’s about growth, awareness, and creating space for open conversations that help us understand each other better.

Because the truth is - we all have something we can work on.

In this episode, we cover:

Real personal experiences with racism How bias is shaped by upbringing The impact of societal views and stereotypes The complex role of immigration in racial attitudes Why racial jokes aren’t “just jokes” The importance of open conversations and cultural understanding How self-reflection leads to personal growth

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Format 02:03 Personal Experiences with Racism 04:58 Understanding Bias and Upbringing 09:56 The Impact of Societal Views on Racism 15:11 The Courage to Acknowledge Bias 20:11 The Role of Immigration in Racial Bias 24:52 Racial Jokes and Their Implications 30:03 Personal Stories of Bias and Change 35:14 The Importance of Open Conversations 40:12 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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