Show Notes
My special guest today is my wife, Misty Anderson. I am just excited to record a conversation with her. She is a fantastic wife and friend, but she is also an excellent venue/ "day of" coordinator. She primarily works at Varian Orchards in East Canton, Ohio. We share the brief story of how we met, got engaged, and married. It was out of our wedding, her passion for weddings, and my career as a wedding minister that led her to a natural fit as a coordinator. She loves working with couples and their families. Our conversations during wedding season often involve us comparing notes and sharing stories from the weddings we've served. Misty discusses Timelines, Desserts, Decorations, Budgets, and a topic that's close to my heart: why you need to hire a professional minister or officiant. For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com David Anderson's Linktree Profile The Wedding Chaplain Website Misty works at Varian Orchards. Their website is https://www.varianorchards.com/. Early in the run of our podcast, we interviewed Cliff Varian, the owner and operator of Varian Orchards. That episode can be heard here: https://sites.libsyn.com/449601/episode-5-cliff-varian-on-wedding-venues. I also did a whole episode on the importance of hiring a professional minister. That can be found here: https://sites.libsyn.com/449601/episode-7-why-are-pastors-the-professionals-you-should-turn-to-for-your-wedding Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: On Facebook On Instagram Twitter: @weddingchaplain On LinkedIn On Pinterest Sponsor: EWed Insurance
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