Show Notes
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses grooming, manipulation, and sensitive relationship dynamics. Listener discretion is advised. In this episode, we explore the realities of grooming—what it is, how it develops, and why it's often misunderstood. Rather than focusing only on extreme cases, this conversation breaks down the subtle behaviors and patterns that can go unnoticed in everyday interactions. We discuss the difference between intent and impact, how grooming can sometimes be disguised as care or attention, and why these situations are often more complex than they appear. This episode also examines how normalization, power dynamics, and accountability all play a role in how grooming is recognized and addressed. Watch full episodes on YouTube and subscribe so you never miss a drop: https://www.youtube.com/@cantaffordtherapypod
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