Time with Tim Fletcher

Learning to Heal in LIFT with Kirstin & Charlene | Ep. 6

Time with Tim Fletcher

Show Notes

In this episode of the Time with Tim podcast, Andy engages in a heartfelt conversation with LIFT facilitators Kirstin and Charlene about their personal journeys through trauma recovery. They discuss their experiences in Tim Fletcher's LIFT program, the importance of vulnerability, the role of boundaries, and the significance of connection in healing. Both Kirstin and Charlene share pivotal moments that transformed their understanding of themselves and their relationships with others. They also offer valuable advice for those beginning their Complex Trauma recovery journey, emphasizing the need for self-love and the courage to reach out for help. The conversation highlights the ongoing nature of healing and personal growth, as well as the power of community support.

Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction to the Journey 00:04:14 Exploring Personal Interests and Balance 00:14:11 Navigating Vulnerability and Anxiety 00:18:36 The Path to the LIFT Program 00:25:26 Pivotal Moments in the LIFT Program 00:33:21 Understanding Boundaries and Self-Care 00:40:13 Journey Through Healing: Phase One Insights 00:47:04 Deepening Understanding: Phase Two Revelations 00:50:25 The Power of Connection in Healing 01:04:14 Advice for Newcomers: Reaching Out for Help 01:10:05 Personal Growth: Navigating Co-dependency and Agency

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