Show Notes
Menopause and perimenopause can quietly affect marriage, intimacy, and family life. In this episode, Dr Louise Newson, The @menopause_doctor explains how hormonal change impacts mood, connection, and desire, why symptoms are often misunderstood, and how men can better support their partner. We explore what is actually happening in the body when hormones change and why it can show up as personality shifts, anxiety, anger, brain fog, exhaustion, and loss of libido. We also look at why many men internalise this as rejection or failure, and what they can do to support their partner without judgement. If your relationship feels different in midlife, this conversation offers clarity Chapters 00:00 Why menopause is affecting marriage and family life 02:25 Louise Newson’s story and why she spoke out 06:00 What menopause and perimenopause really are 11:30 Why symptoms are missed and misunderstood 17:15 Emotional distance intimacy loss and relationship strain 23:03 Why sex touch and desire can disappear 29:15 Isolation stress and escapism for men 34:45 What men can do to support their partner 41:18 Testosterone decline and hormonal health in men 44:50 Final thoughts and why this conversation matters To learn more about our Network for men in leadership, please visit: https://monumental.global/the-network/ Sponsor This episode is proudly supported by Burgess Mee, a family law firm helping individuals navigate the emotional and legal complexities of relationship breakdown with clarity and dignity. Learn more at https://burgessmee.com
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