Just a Minute with Dr Kumari

Attachment, Co-regulation, and Big Feelings with Aisling O’Connor

Just a Minute with Dr Kumari

Show Notes

Aisling O’Connor is a Child Psychologist in Sligo, Ireland. Today we talk about attachment, disruptions in attachment, co-regulation, and the big feelings that occur in childhood. We also talk about Aisling’s passion for online safety and how connection with children is one of the pillars that keeps them safe. Aisling has an upcoming masterclass - check her out at Connections Child Psychology on Facebook and Instagram.

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