
Show Notes
Who are you beyond that role? Who are you besides a people leader? What keeps you from claiming all of who you are in a more holistic way? What's the effect of identifying yourself almost exclusively by your work role? Transform your approach to leadership identity on this episode of the Work Positive Podcast with Dr. Joey Faucette and Nick Jonsson. Nick is a professional speaker, bestselling author, executive coach, and supervised counselor and psychotherapist specializing in holistic leadership, mental wellbeing, and identity beyond performance. His book "Executive Loneliness" is an international bestseller about isolation, stress, and depression in leaders. As a former senior executive himself, his journey through burnout and recovery (including overcoming alcohol addiction) shaped his understanding of success and meaning. Today he works with founders, second gen leaders, and senior executives worldwide, integrating psychology and his lived experience. Listen as Nick explores: ☀️ Why he felt lonely and isolated once he reached the top and fell all the way down ☀️ How vulnerability is like a muscle you build in the gym through practice, not all at once ☀️ Why 10-20% of senior executives struggle with some form of alcohol addiction (100 people in a room of 1,000) ☀️ How the younger generation wants more meaning, purpose, and deeper conversations ☀️ Why leaders 50+ who aren't vulnerable won't connect with Gen Z and fresh graduates Nick transforms how leaders think about identity by proving that when you build your vulnerability muscle and create psychologically safe spaces for storytelling, people treat each other differently and create cultures where it's okay to speak up. 🔑 Key Insight: "The vulnerability muscle is almost like building muscle in the gym. It's about practicing. We can do that by building up our safe spaces. The younger generation wants more meaning, more purpose, deeper conversations. The biggest challenge for the 50+ generation who are not vulnerable is they will not connect with the younger generation and fresh graduates. There's just a disconnect. When you create an agenda with storytelling in team building events, people love storytelling. That's how you get a dopamine kick and remember." 💡 Your DOT (Do One Thing): See and think who in your work environment you can trust and have a vulnerable conversation with. Remember, it's like a muscle. You cannot go all out right away or people will be shocked. It's about just sharing something with one person you feel you can trust. Go for a coffee or take them to lunch and start by being a bit curious. Share something that is happening in your life. Once you've done that, ask an open question back to them: "What's happening in your life?" Once you've played the first card and been a bit vulnerable, the other person naturally starts to also share something. Connect with Nick Jonsson:
Get "Executive Loneliness" on Amazon (Kindle, paperback, audiobook) Visit nickjonsson.com for contact details, products, and services Take the FREE Life Self-Assessment (5 minutes, rank yourself on the Wheel of Life across 8 areas) Connect with Nick on LinkedIn Learn about his upcoming book "5 Steps to Holistic Leadership" Discover his keynote speaking and team building workshops
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