Show Notes
Send us Fan Mail Shame can make a single night of drinking feel like a verdict on your character. If you have ever woken up after wine or a big night and thought, “What is wrong with me?”, we want to slow that moment right down and look at what is actually happening under the surface. Because shame is not the same as guilt, and it is often the hidden force that keeps the drink regret promise loop spinning. Meg talks about how shame says “I am wrong”, how it pushes you into hiding, and why s...
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Send us Fan Mail Missing alcohol after you quit can feel scary, like it means you’re sliding backwards. We don’t buy that story. We talk about what’s really happening when the thought pops up years into sobriety: your brain is remembering a feeling, a season, a song, a summer night, and alcohol just happens to be tangled up in the memory. That’s nostalgia, not failure, and it’s far more common in alcohol-free living than people admit. We also get real about the myth that life after alcohol i...
Send us Fan Mail At some point, “wine time” stops being a treat and starts being the moment our kids lose us. We can be the mum who shows up to school events, keeps everyone fed, and holds the family together, while also disappearing emotionally every night behind a glass. That contradiction is painful to admit, especially when we love our children more than anything, yet it’s also where real change begins. We share a raw look at how children notice the small shifts: the change in our ...
Send us Fan Mail You can be in a toxic relationship and still struggle to “prove” it, even to yourself. We’re talking about the kind that doesn’t always look dramatic on the outside, but slowly makes you smaller on the inside: covert narcissism, subtle manipulation, and the quiet loss of self trust that can happen over months or years. We unpack how low self esteem and old relationship patterns can push us towards what feels safe instead of what’s genuinely healthy. I share my own experience...
Send us Fan Mail Rejection can feel brutal, but the most painful part is often what we make it mean about us. If “no” instantly translates to “I’m not enough”, it can shape everything: the way we text, the way we speak up, the way we pick partners, and the way we silence our needs to avoid conflict. We sit with that fear honestly and name the pattern many of us know too well: searching outside ourselves for proof that we’re okay. We trace rejection sensitivity back to early experiences...