No One Told Us

Rewind: Fostering a Secure Attachment with Michelle Charriere

No One Told Us

Show Notes

Rachael chats with birth-to-five mental health specialist Michelle Charriere about what it really takes to build (and repair) a secure attachment with your child. They cover the four attachment styles, why repair matters more than perfection, and how to choose childcare that supports connection...plus real talk on daycare and sleep training without the internet drama.

And because they couldn’t resist, they end with a little Bravo TV fun, including Michelle’s pick for the best Housewives franchise to start with and a round of “F**k, Marry, Kill” (Bravo edition).

Inside this episode:

The four attachment styles (and why secure is the goal)

How repair builds trust after ruptures

Choosing childcare that supports emotional connection

Thoughts on daycare and sleep training

What to look for in a caregiver

Bravo TV picks and guilty pleasures

Mentioned in this episode:

@babiesandbrains

Parenting Through Attachment Course

Childcare & Preschool Guide

New Sibling Guide

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