
Show Notes
In this week's episode of The Autism Mums Podcast reflect on attending the peaceful protest Every Pair Tells a Story, led by The SEND Sanctuary. Key Takeaways The Every Pair Tells a Story protest shone a light on thousands of children across the UK who have been left without the education or support they deserve. Each pair of shoes represented a child and the pain, resilience, and determination of the families standing behind them. Parents and carers united peacefully to demand accountability, compassion, and systemic change. The stories of children like Archie, Harper, Izzy, Lucas, and Jackson highlighted the devastating human cost of a broken system. Long waiting lists, inconsistent support, and poor understanding within schools continue to fail neurodivergent children.
Mentioned in This Episode The SEND Sanctuary ASDivas & Dudes Fix SEND Dorset ASCape The SEND Nurture Network Connect with The Autism Mums Website – https://theautismmums.com/ Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/theautismmums Follow us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/theautismmums Transcript Victoria Bennion: Welcome back to the Autism Mums podcast. Thank you for joining us for today's episode, which is both a bit emotional and I think quite historic.
Natalie Tealdi: Yeah, I mean, last Monday across England and Scotland, parents and carers came together for a peaceful protest called Every Pair Tells a Story.
Victoria Bennion: Pairs of shoes were laid outside council buildings, and each pair represented a child who's been failed by the education and support systems. Whether that's been waiting for years for an assessment, missing out on a school place, or being left without help. Natalie Tealdi: This movement led by the Send Sanctuary is about visibility and accountability. It's about family showing through the quiet power of empty shoes. That our children deserve better. Victoria Bennion: Yeah. And we went along to support the protest, didn't we? Nat, which was outside Dorsett County Council at County Hall in Dorchester. And I dunno about you, but I did find it really moving. [00:01:00] I think there were more than 70 pairs of shoes laid outside those council offices and each pair of shoes represented a child who's been let down by the system in some way, which I don't know. Victoria Bennion: It's really sad. And I think thinking of the shoes as a symbol, they were really powerful. They represent. The steps that our children should be taking into school with friendships, with independence, and yet so many can't because the system just keeps letting them down. Natalie Tealdi: I mean, it was so powerful sort of seeing them all laid out and thinking, gosh, thinking about what that rep represents, like 70 pairs of shoes for 70 children. I mean, yeah, it was quite Victoria Bennion: it's shocking and when you see it visually like that, that's the amount of children who maybe aren't in school or are traumatized by school,
Natalie Tealdi: that's only in Dorset
Victoria Bennion: That's only in Dorset it. And when you buy [00:02:00] those shoes, I don't know if you can remember when you bought your children's first shoes for school, there is quite a lot of excitement. Victoria Bennion: You have so much hope. And then when your child doesn't go to school, these shoes and you know, for a lot of us, the whole uniforms, they stay there new and actually what they become is like. That symbol of hope and excitement in the beginnings are replaced by, feelings of exclusion, waiting, disappointment, sadness for your child that they can't access something that all their peers can. Natalie Tealdi: Yeah, and I think it's sad for them too because they want to be able to access those things and they can't.
Victoria Bennion: It's so much more than the education. It's, the missed friendships. It's the skills that they don't get to develop. It's the emotional toll on not just the children, but the families of these children. Natalie Tealdi: Yeah, I dunno about you
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