Psychologist Explains Women's Dating Strategies & Why Young Men FAIL (ft. PyscHacks)
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Doctor Orion Taraban is a clinical psychologist and owner of the PsycHacks Youtube channel. @psychacks
In this episode we discuss the psychology of dating, the behavioral economics of dating and how those two things make men and women have very different incentives and approaches
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TIMESTAMPS 00:00 INTRO 00:14 Why Women Go to Therapy 3 Times More Than Men 03:27 Is Therapy Better Fit for Women? 05:58 Men Find External Solutions to Internal Problems 10:55 Why Modern Men Are Struggling in Dating 13:30 Learning to Deal With Rejection 15:50 The Romantic Ideal: Men Have Been Lied To 20:53 Society’s Definition of Love Is Toxic 23:22 Jesus: How Much Sacrifice Does Love Require? 27:59 Loving Without Expecting Anything in Return 30:23 "Love People Like Cats" 32:29 Wounded People Recreate Their Traumatic Relationships 35:05 The Crossroads: Where Decisions Really Matter 37:14 How to Avoid Being Blinded by Emotions 39:27 Stopping Negative Thought Cycles 44:23 The Core of Mental Disorders: “Self-Focused Attention” 45:34 The Surprising Power of Stepping Away From Alcohol 47:22 The Black Pill: Young Men Giving Up on Life 51:46 The Antidote to Hopelessness 53:10 Being a Young Man Is Tough 54:49 Should You “Grind Out” Your 20s? 57:11 What It Means to Be a Man in 2023 1:01:19 The Changing Definitions of Masculinity and Femininity 1:05:05 Masculinity: “To Have a Spine and to Have a Pair” 1:07:40 Covid and Conformity 1:09:56 Having a Healthy Level of Self-Doubt 1:11:21 When Should You Stand Up Against the Crowd? 1:13:54 Is “Masculinity/Femininity” a Productive Framework? 1:17:30 Why Women Are Frustrated With Modern Dating 1:20:26 “Women Are Still Waiting for the Offer” 1:22:12 Why 99% of Women Will Be Disappointed 1:26:23 Can Evolutionary Psychology Explain Dating? 1:28:15 Forming Relationships: Can Compatibility Beat Status? 1:30:24 Beauty Doesn’t Make a Happy Relationship 1:32:04 “Find Your Ugly Duckling” 1:33:26 The Dark Horse Strategy 1:35:41 Debate: Do Looks/Finances Really Matter That Much? 1:39:16 Personality Disorders = Childhood Coping Mechanisms 1:41:39 Uncovering Internal Wounds Without Becoming a Victim 1:47:33 Can You Take on Too Much Responsibility? 1:48:59 You’re Not Always the Problem 1:51:16 The Pros and Cons of Spirituality 1:54:22 The Point of Religion: “A Felt Connection With the Divine” 1:57:37 People Never Love Each Other Exactly the Same Amount 2:00:05 Check Out PsycHacks on YouTube and oriontarabanpsyd.com
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