Dear Son,

I'm A Full Custody Father | Ep 185 | The Dear Son, Show

Dear Son,

Show Notes

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

From Premature Birth to Full Custody: Ace Jackson on Fatherhood, Faith, and Rebuilding

On the Dear Son Show, the host and guest Ace Jackson discuss gratitude and perspective through personal stories, including surviving serious car accidents and seeing hardships as decision points for faith and growth. Ace shares his Dallas upbringing, watching his parents sacrifice, start a family bakery, and maintain respect and unity through job loss and injury. He opens up about becoming a father at 20 when his son was born extremely premature and spent 77 days in the NICU, navigating abandonment, court battles, and eventually gaining full custody when his son was about two. Ace reflects on single parenthood, trust and abandonment issues, his son asking for therapy, and lessons about carrying yourself with character. He also describes his work in a family bakery, owning a car restoration/body shop, and using cars as a metaphor for stripping down to rebuild.

00:00 Welcome to Dear Son 00:31 What Blessed Means 01:17 Car Crash Perspective 03:54 Gratitude Decision Points 05:29 Roots in Dallas 08:21 Family Struggle and Sacrifice 13:43 Legacy Beyond Money 16:47 Discipline and Consequences 21:40 Hustler Kid Mindset 23:52 Dad on the Road 27:43 Becoming a Young Father 30:13 Grinding Two Jobs 31:04 Suit And Tie Interview 32:24 Dyslexia And Support 33:56 Preemie Birth Crisis 36:52 Nicu Alone And Betrayal 40:44 Court And Father Rights 44:43 Winning Full Custody 45:08 Raising A Son 48:25 Feeling Like A Failure 50:23 Grandfather Pride 53:34 Fatherhood Lessons 57:44 Business And Purpose 01:00:38 Seen Beyond The Smile 01:01:06 Where To Find Him 01:01:56 Final Reflections

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Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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