Bits and Boobs

The many facets of grief we don't talk about w/ Bianca

Bits and Boobs

Show Notes

This week, Bianca takes on her first solo episode and opens up about her experience with grief across different chapters of her life. Losing her mum as a child. Being diagnosed with cancer at 20. And more recently, losing her brother. This isn’t a neat or tidy conversation. It’s an honest reflection on how grief actually feels, how it lingers, and how it can show up when you least expect it. If you’ve ever felt like you should be handling things better or moving on faster, this episode is a r...

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