Show Notes
We all enjoy a good conversation about kink and fetishes, but it is even more important to discuss the safety of play and consent. This episode highlights how to properly obtain and identify consent, details on consensual non-consent, as well as tips for maximizing safety and fun. Show Timestamps for ease of sharing:
(01:28) - Episode overview (04:31) - The importance of consent (05:40) - The definition of consent (07:20) - Consent should be voluntary (08:06) - Consent must be clear (10:22) - Consent should be given coherently (13:15) - Consent is ongoing (16:20) - Consent is revocable (23:20) - Kink contracts (36:09) - Discussing consensual non-consent (46:20) - Tips for consent (52:45) - Safety precautions
Show Refences
EdgePlay and BDSM Examples - https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailydot.com/irl/edge-play-bdsm-examples/%3famp Shape.com - What is Consent - https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/what-is-consent 5 things about Consensual Non-Consent (CNC): https://domsubliving.com/5-things-about-consensual-non-consent/ The Journal of Sex Research - https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2012-28578-008
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