Episode 104: Mom Brain Explained: The Science of the Postpartum Brain with Dr. Nikki Pensak
No One Told UsShow Notes
What if "mom brain" isn't something to laugh off, but evidence that your brain is undergoing one of the biggest transformations of your life? In this episode, Rachael sits down with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Nikki Pensak to explore the science behind the postpartum brain, why anxiety is so common after having a baby, and what every mother deserves to know about her mental health.
Together, they unpack the brain changes that occur during motherhood, why maternal instinct isn't as automatic as we're often told, and how sleep deprivation, stress, and trauma can shape the postpartum experience. Dr. Pensak also shares why healing is possible, how mothers can recognize when they need support, and the hope that can come through post-traumatic growth.
Inside this episode:
What "mom brain" really is and why it happens
How neuroplasticity reshapes the brain during motherhood
Why postpartum anxiety is so common and often overlooked
The myth of maternal instinct and what actually builds confidence as a parent
How stress and sleep deprivation affect the maternal brain
Understanding birth trauma and the possibility of post-traumatic growth
Signs it may be time to seek support for postpartum anxiety or depression
Why self-care is a vital part of maternal mental health
How social media can impact new moms….for better and for worse
Dr. Nikki's inspiration for writing Rattled and helping mothers feel less alone
And so much more!
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Rattled by Dr. Nikki Pensak
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