Hypno-WHAT?! Modern Hypnobirthing with Claire.

14. First Steps to Feeling Better About Birth

Hypno-WHAT?! Modern Hypnobirthing with Claire.

Show Notes

It’s all very well to be told about the importance of building a positive mindset for birth, but how do you actually get to a place where that feels realistic?

For some people, they hit pregnancy feeling pretty neutral about birth, others even feel good and excited about the experience of giving birth, however, there are a great many people who don’t fall in to either of those camps. If that is you, you are not alone. In fact, I’d say you’re maybe in the majority group!

If you are currently in a place where the idea of birth being a positive experience feels pretty far fetched and your wracked with fear & anxiety then this episode is for you. I’m not here to tell you not to be scared, I think it’s really important to recognise our feelings, not just try to cover them up.

Let me take you through some of the first steps I use with my clients to try and help them to dial down a bit of that belief that birth is an inherently negative experience.

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