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The Ancient Source of Cancellation

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Summary

Marketers are increasingly concerned about the effectiveness of their ad campaigns, with many reporting that high dashboard metrics do not translate into actual revenue. This phenomenon, referred to as "bullspend," highlights the need for businesses to focus on tangible results rather than just impressions. LinkedIn is noted as a platform that offers the highest return on ad spend among major networks, encouraging marketers to invest in campaigns that yield real financial outcomes.

The discussion shifts to the psychological impact of reputation and public perception. Drawing from Stoic philosophy, it emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between self-perception and how others view us. The Stoics advocate for focusing on self-knowledge and personal values as a means to build resilience against external judgments. Modern psychotherapy adds that past experiences, particularly in childhood, can distort self-image and contribute to anxiety about reputation. By understanding and affirming one's worth, individuals can cultivate a stronger sense of self that is less affected by public opinion.

Show Notes

It’s natural for most of us to spend time descending into worry about our reputation: what if we are accused of something, what if we are ostracised, mocked and cancelled? A useful way out of the panic was suggested many centuries ago by the Stoic thinkers of Ancient Greece and Rome.

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“It’s natural for most of us to spend time worrying about our reputation: what others think of us, whether we are deemed good or bad by the community…

This can quickly become a painful topic, and our thoughts can descend into bonfires of worry: what if we are accused of something, what if we are ostracised and mocked, what about if we become a pariah?

A useful way out of the panic was suggested many centuries ago by the Stoic thinkers of Ancient Greece and Rome. They suggested that we divide the topic of reputation into two.

On the one hand, who we are and what we think of ourselves.

And on the other: what other people may decide to declare or say about us.”

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