Islands of Coherence

Living and Dying Fearlessly with RamDev Dale Borglum

Islands of Coherence

Show Notes

Executive Direction of the Living/Dying Project RamDev Dale Borglum joins us for this week as we discuss how to live a life of transformation so we can face death more peacefully. RamDev Dale Borglum is the author of How to Live So You Can Die Without Fear and the executive director of the Living/Dying Project. A pioneering figure in the conscious dying movement, he has spent decades helping individuals face death — and life — with greater awareness and has collaborated with leaders in the field including Ram Dass, Stephen Levine, and Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. Drawing on his background as a mathematician, meditation teacher, lover of God, and devoted practitioner of both Eastern and Western healing traditions, Borglum offers a uniquely practical and accessible map to the healing path.Linkslivingdying.orgHis Book: https://bookpassage.com/book/9781955831086Show Topics- RamDev's Story of Helping Start the Intentional Dying Movement- All Fear is Fear of Death- Grounding and Embodiment- Working with Fear, Guilt, and Shame- Grief's Role in Softening the Heart- How Has Dying Work Changed RamDev- What Surprises RamDev About Dying After 45 Years of Working with it- Connecting to a Wider Awareness- Causes of Transformation- Joy and Service

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