Show Notes
Setting a goal can feel exciting, but excitement alone cannot carry you through the days when progress feels slow, doubt begins speaking, or an old pattern tempts you to stop. In this continuation of Only 30 Days to an Entirely New Reality, Kelli explains how to turn a meaningful goal into a process you can follow. You will learn why achieving a goal requires both an execution plan and an identity plan and how these two plans work together to help you continue after the initial excitement fades. Your execution plan identifies what you want to accomplish, the strategy you will use, the repeated actions that support it, and when those actions will happen. Your identity plan prepares you to recognize the beliefs, emotions, and behaviors that may surface as you begin asking more of yourself. In this episode, you will learn:
The difference between a vision and a measurable goal
The four parts of an execution plan
How to choose a strategy that fits your current season
How to turn your intentions into scheduled, repeatable actions
Why every meaningful goal creates an identity question
How your language can reinforce an old identity or support a new one
How to prepare for the moment an old pattern appears
How to create evidence that strengthens the identity you are practicing
How to use an Evidence Book or Proof Journal during your 30-day practice
Your Exercise Choose one meaningful goal and create two plans. Execution Plan
What specific result am I working toward?
What strategy will I use?
What repeated actions does that strategy require?
When will I complete those actions?
Identity Plan
Who am I practicing being as I pursue this goal?
What old belief or behavior is likely to appear?
How will I respond when it appears?
What action can I complete today that creates evidence?
At the end of each day, record what you completed, what you learned, and one moment that reflects the identity you are practicing. Every completed action—and every decision to return after a missed day—becomes evidence. Continue the Conversation Download this episode so you can return to the exercise while creating your execution plan and identity plan. Share it with a woman who has a meaningful goal and wants a practical way to continue working toward it. Join Kelli’s email list for practical identity tools, episode updates, and conversations that will help you apply what you are learning: Join the email list Join The Resurrection Room Facebook group to continue the conversation, share your evidence, and connect with women who are practicing new ways of thinking, responding, and living: Join the Facebook group If this episode served you, please leave a written review and a rating. Your words help other women understand what they can expect from The Resurrection Room, and your rating helps more listeners discover the podcast. You are loved, you are seen, you are not forgotten, and you are not too late. You can rise and I believe you will. Go gently. Go boldly. And let your resurrection begin.
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