Relational Practice: a social work podcast

When Loss Isn't Final: Ambiguous Loss in Social Work

Relational Practice: a social work podcast

Show Notes

Join hosts Dr. Jodie Park and Rose Mackey as they dive into the complex world of ambiguous loss, a type of grief that social workers often encounter but may not have a name for. In this episode of "Relational Practice," they're joined by special guest Dr. Kenny Kor, a leading expert on the topic. What You'll Learn: What exactly is ambiguous loss? Dr. Kor breaks down the concept, based on the foundational research of Pauline Boss. You'll discover how this unique form of grief applies to situations where a loved one is either physically absent but psychologically present (like a missing person or a child in foster care) or physically present but psychologically absent (like a family member with dementia). Why is this so vital for social work? The hosts explore how an ambiguous loss framework helps practitioners better understand the unspoken pain of children, parents, and caregivers in the child protection and out-of-home care systems. They'll also discuss the Mitchell research and its six dimensions of ambiguous loss, providing a lens to see a family's struggles in a new way. The HEAR Practice Model: Dr. Kor introduces the HEAR practice model, a powerful tool he co-developed. This model offers a clear, step-by-step guide for social workers to navigate these difficult situations. The episode provides real-world examples, showing exactly how to apply the model to help families find clarity and healing in the face of ongoing uncertainty. Practical Resources: The episode wraps up with the hosts sharing valuable resources and tools you can use in your own practice. Don't forget to check the show notes for a link to the academic paper on the HEAR model!

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Episode Resources: Pauline Boss webpage https://www.ambiguousloss.com/

Kor, K., Park, J., Dear, R., & Fabrianesi, B. (2024). Responding to children's ambiguous loss in out-of-home care: The HEAR practice model. Child & Family Social Work, 29(1), 248–258. https://doi.org/10.1111/cfs.13072

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