#183 Michael Harris - Blocked Care: Why Caregivers Go Numb and How to Come Back
The FASD Success ShowShow Notes
When you’re parenting on high alert for years, your nervous system eventually tries to protect you. Sometimes that protection looks like numbness, irritability, shutdown, or going through the motions. In this episode, Jeff Noble sits down with Michael Harris, known online as FASD Elephant, to break down the science of blocked care and the small, realistic ways caregivers can find their way back to connection. In this episode you’ll hear • What blocked care is and why it happens when str...
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