Show Notes
Today’s teens often try to tackle their homework while fielding nonstop notifications, listening to music, and participating in group chats. Plenty of parents wonder if this is a fight worth having, or if this is just – as some teens say – “how kids study now.”
In this episode of Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens, clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and journalist Reena Ninan unpack one of the most common (and maddening) modern parenting dilemmas: Can teens really focus while multitasking with technology?
They explore why self-interruptions are just as disruptive as outside ones, when tech can actually help, and how parents can address distractions without turning homework time into a nightly power struggle. This episode helps parents balance empathy with expectations, even when their teen is already “doing well” on paper.
💡 YOU’LL LEARN:
- Why multitasking slows learning, even for high-achieving teens
- How study environments can impact focus
- Simple, realistic tools that reduce conflict and build skills
- The “Four R’s” for behavior change
If you’re worried about your teen’s long-term focus and learning skills, this episode gives you a calm, respectful way forward.
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