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Renew You with Quinn KellyShow Notes
In today’s episode, Quinn and Esther discuss what Esther has learned about raising girls! She shares her passion about becoming their friend in addition to being their parent for long-term connection. In the episode, Quinn and Danyel discuss: 1. Understanding that even when our circumstances change, God doesn’t. 2. Relying on community when feeling isolated 3. Singing God’s praise during the worst of times Mind Renewal Tip: We often think that we will know God best when we see his good but we often know him best when his love and character carries us through hardship. Scriptural Renewal Tip: This is what the Lord says: “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches, but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the Lord, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight," declares the Lord. Jeremiah 9:23-24
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