Married, Divorced & Dating

#82  - Communication, Boundaries, and Sex with Ben and Jaz

Married, Divorced & Dating

Show Notes

Welcome back and thank you for joining us in 2024! We’re so happy to kick this year off back in the studio together as Rachel has been flown back to the country for two months of work, and to tour with her boyfriend 👀 Hear all about her struggles with settling into London, and navigating her first relationship after marriage (5 years ago), and an update on Carl finding balance in his beautiful family life, plus his nipple kink!

Our guests this week are the incredible Ben and Jaz, who you may know from social media as @Onlyben_and_jaz They open up to us about clear communication in a relationship, setting boundaries, what they learnt in their ‘30 days of Sex’ challenge, PLUS let us in on their next challenge deep diving into kinks. This is a great listen with a tonne of valuable information!

Then, we have one of you amazing listeners reach out anonymously asking the question about navigating your partner watching porn to masturbate. Carl and Rachel give their personal opinions to help navigate the conversation if it is a concern in a relationship.

Strap in, let's go!!!

Instagram: instagram.com/marrieddivorcedanddating/ Rachel’s Instagram: instagram.com/rachelohdear/ Carl’s Instagram: instagram.com/carlpthompson/ Ben and Jaz’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Onlyben_and_jaz

Wanna email us a story, we know you’ve got one? [email protected]

Intro Music: Neill Fraser - Married Divorced & Dating Theme instagram.com/neillfraser/

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Happy loving

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