Show Notes
In this episode, Jo sits down with psychotherapist Niki Grennell to explore what happens when the connection in a long-term relationship starts to fade beneath the weight of responsibility and everyday life. If you've ever felt more like flatmates than partners, this conversation will help you understand why—and what you can do about it. In this episode, we explore: The difference between sex and intimacy—and why intimacy often disappears first
Why personal growth can either strengthen or create friction in midlife relationships
The three layers of connection: with yourself, your partner as they are now, and your shared future
How to know whether to stay and work on things—or when it's time to leave
Simple, compassionate ways to begin shifting a relationship from one side
If this topic has been quietly weighing on you, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate place to start thinking it through.
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